Book Summary-The Subtle Art of not giving F*ck by Mark Manson
Not giving a f*ck does not mean being indifferent:
It means being comfortable with being different.
Action isn't just the effect of motivation: it also the cause of it.
We are wired to become dissatisfied with whatever we have and satisfied by only what we do not have.
This constant dissatisfaction has kept our species fighting and striving, building and conquering.
So no - our own pain and misery aren't a bug of human evolution; they're a feature.
Happiness comes from solving problems.
The secret sauce is in the solving of the problems, not in not having problems in the first place.
To be happy we need something to solve.Happiness is therefore a form of actions.
Growth is an endlessly iterative process. When we learn something new,
we don't go from "wrong' to "right."
we go from wrong to slightly less wrong.
This openness to being wrong must exist for any real change or growth to take place.
Don't just sit there. Do something. The answers will follow.